1. Think about whether the first time you want to come alone or with a companion/partner. If you feel that at first you are not willing to chat with the two of them, and the conflict is too big with each other, then for the first 2 times you can come up with a partner separately.
2. In case of concerns of the child, it would be desirable that both parents come to the place. (if possible)
3. It would be good for each family member to formulate their own expectations about therapy
4. Before you meet, think about what or who will have the most impact on your relationship.
5. Think about which of the family members might be helpful to you, including. also, members of the family of origin.
6. Think about the development of relationships on a historical axis that may have influenced your relationships along the timeline.
7. We do not deal with couple relationships if the partner is currently violent towards you or the child. Then, if you wish, we will deal with a violent partner at first and then with you separately. Do not strat therapy if if the side relationship is not terminated. We deal with couple relationships when both are ready.
8. During therapy, different emotions may arise that are part of the therapy process. A specialist in his work discovers the family, and his assumptions about the family system are always at the level of hypotheses, which the family either confirms or vice versa.
